Austin is 5 months old now, and has never consistently slept through the night. Here and there, he's had longer stretches of sleep, but the past couple of weeks he's been waking up as often as a newborn. Needless to say, it's EXHAUSTING!!!!! I didn't have this problem with Aubrey. She slept 12 hours a night from 3 months on. Although, around 10 months old she did start waking up in the night, and we did 4 nights of crying it out, and that solved that problem. I've been hoping that Austin would solve his own sleep problems (haha) since I don't want to let him cry it out before 6 months. But, that's not happening. Boo!
So, I've come up with a new plan. I've been working hard to get Austin on a consistent bed time routine. We do bath, jammies, book, then he nurses. He always falls asleep while he nurses, so now I've started waking him up after he eats, and then putting him in bed awake. I know....sounds counter-intuitive, but it's helping him learn to soothe himself to sleep. If he fusses while he's trying to fall asleep in his crib, I'll hold his hand or stand by his bed, but I DON'T pick him up or cuddle him. He has to go to sleep in his bed, not my arms. His problem is, he wakes up in the night and usually wants to nurse to fall back asleep. Sometimes a binky or cuddling works, but either way we have to wake up with him. Anyway, after a few nights of putting him to bed drowsy, but still awake, he's already doing better in the night. Last night I heard him wake up at 2 am and 5am, and then he went back to sleep on his own both times!!! That's like unheard of for him!!!! So we are slowly working on teaching him to self-soothe. I think it will take longer than crying it out, but I like having a gentler solution for a younger baby. I'm just working on keeping his whole day very structured and consistent, so nap times generally fall at the same time every day, and he gets enough rest during the day, so he's not overly tired at bedtime. Man, babies sure are a lot of work. :) Anyway, I'm starting to see a light at the end of the tunnel! I'm REALLY hoping that I can get Austin to sleep through the night, and then maybe I won't have to be a zombie mom all day! Wish me luck!!!
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